My "So Called" Sister Ann Grimes!
Also known as " Married Name" Ann Edwards
There is quite a story behind my sister and her disrespect for her mother but I will fill this more in later and tell you the full story! You would be correct in saying I do not like this person very much! For here is the most callus person I have ever met! But my feelings aside and trying to keep my cool after what she has done to her own flesh and blood mother I will write here in due course and try and put it down!
Unfortunately there was such a large age gap between me and my sister I never really knew her as I probably should have and this is a small regret, I protected her a couple of times from perverts (believe it or not) and I did all the usual older brother horrible things to her, when I was 18 she was around 9 years old and of course (me) being a teenager was not personally thinking about much in particular! In fact my head was really not on the ball.
Additionally; in that mindset of “being a teenager” it was (in my life) VERY un-cool to be seen with a very young sister, so for that I am guilty and maybe not paying the greatest of attention to her (besides) I was well into girls and clothes and dare I say it fashion in the late seventies and at this time so my life was pretty much consumed by this very confusing part of life and young puberty!
So I say now (and to my sister) that if this part of my life and yours as my sister affected you so much to become the person you are now then I am truly sorry! It was not intentional and we all have a hard time growing up, when I look back and as my story unfolds on other pages I had a bit of a rough time too, but I am not using it as any excuse whatsoever for the way I think and act now, I still carry skeletons of my past and a few regrets but I believe this is all part of growing up and learning to release those demons of yesteryear! Obviously some demons are bigger than others and will always haunt a person, even become part of their very being without realisation, I think it is all down to control and doing what is right by your loved ones and realising your mistakes.
Anyway; all said and done there is no excuse for treating your mother the way you have, no matter how much you think that everyone else did not care about you, I can never forgive my sister for her deceit to my mother, and the lies you have told my brother in order to get your greedy and selfish way! The bottom line is it does not matter who gave what or who said what, morally; you should never have taken your mothers life savings to fund your own selfish needs, our mother is now without any money (after working all her life) and has to struggle every day thanks to your selfish ways! This I not love of your mother Ann, it is love of Tyne self!
Anyway; I will unfold the story here in full detail in the very near future! This is just a quick summery!